生命之路艱辛冗長,我們既要善待他人,更要討好自己

別人越來越不把你當一回事,因為你太好說話。別人一有困難你就援手,一請求你就答應,不懂拒絕,迎來的往往就是得寸進有些人的毛病,都是你的好說話,慣出來的。

People are less and less likely to take you seriously because you‘re too good at talking。 As soon as others have difficulties, you will help, as soon as you ask you to agree, do not know how to refuse, ushered in is often to get into some people’s problems, are your good talk, habitual。

生命之路艱辛冗長,我們既要善待他人,更要討好自己

你對別人好到毫無防備,別人就敢壞得無所顧忌。要記住,助人為樂是美德,可沒有尺度的助人為樂,那就是自找麻煩。

You are too good to be defensive about others, and others dare to be bad without scruples。 Remember that helping others is a virtue, but helping others without a scale is asking for trouble。

善良,是持續一生的修行,當你在救贖別人時,先要保護好自己,才是明智之舉。善良是一種選擇,而非你應盡的義務,成年人有一堂必修課叫做“及時止損。”

Kindness is a lifelong practice, and when you are redeeming others, it is wise to protect yourself first。 Kindness is a choice, not an obligation you should fulfill, and adults have a compulsory lesson called “Stop Loss in Time。” ”

生命之路艱辛冗長,我們既要善待他人,更要討好自己

真正的善良,是隨和而不失稜角,柔軟而不失鋒芒。生命之路艱辛冗長,我們既要善待他人,更要討好自己。

True kindness is easy-going without losing edges, soft without losing sharpness。 The road to life is difficult and long, and we must not only be kind to others, but also please ourselves。

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